Tips for Healthy Relationship

Few go to things to remember that will help you form meaningful relationships with people

1. Know that true love liberates, it is wanting the best for another person, no matter what.
2. When two people meet, the prize always goes to the one with the most self-insight. the one who will be calmer, more confident, more at ease with the other and the situation.
3. Kindness is so underrated, everyone is struggling with some or the other thing, the least you can do for humanity is – Be Kind.
4. Never permit the behavior of other people to tell you how you feel. You don’t need anyones acknowledgement.
5. Pay little attention to what people say or do. Most of the times the flattering is fake and is with a motive.
6. Understand that you are in no competition with anyone else but its you yourself.
7. Too deep to understand but speaking about it when we are free of all unnecessary desires toward other people, we can never be deceived or hurt.
8. You take a giant step toward psychological maturity when you refuse to angrily defend yourself against unjust slander or involve in small talks. For one thing, resistance disturbs your own peace of mind.
9. Human nature is so that attachments to things cause all the suffering. Live a little consiously
10. You understand others to the exact degree that you really understand yourself. Work for more and more self-knowledge.
11. Do not be afraid to fully experience everything that happens to you in your human relations, especially the hurt, pains and disappointments. Do this and everything becomes clear at last.
12. If you painfully lose a valuable friend, do not rush out at once for a replacement. Such action prevents you from examining your heartache and breaking free of the on going chain that u are in unknowingly
13. Do not be afraid to be a nobody in a social world. This is a deeper and richer truth than appears on the surface.
    Every unpleasant experience with another person is an opportunity to see people as they are, not as we mistakenly idealize them or what they want us to believe. The more unpleasant the other person is, the more he can teach you.
14. We cannot recognize a virtue in another person that we do not possess in ourselves. It takes a truly loving and patient person to recognize those virtues in another.
15. Do not mistake desire for love. Desire leaves home in a frantic search for one gratification after another. Love is at home with itself.
16. NEVER, never stop believing in love. It is much powerfull than we humans can ever understand.
17. There are parts of you that want the loving life and parts that do not. Place yourself on the side of the positive forces: do all you can to aid and encourage them.
18. You must stop living timidly from fixed fears of what others will think of you and of what you will think of yourself. Make your own path as we all our unique.
19. Do not contrive to be a loving person: work to be a real person. Being real is being honest and that is also being loving.
20. The greatest love you could ever offer to humanity is to so transform your inner life that others are attracted to your genuine example of goodness.